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Wow. I've tried many times to log into this Blog but somehow the settings changed and I couldn't seem to be able to reset it to enter. Maybe this is my lucky day!

This last year has been quite a change of pace for us. We took custody of an eleven year old grandson. He had been somewhat neglected for the past 2 0r 3 years and came with a potfull of issues. In my naive belief structure, I thought if we provided a warm, welcoming home with structure, boundaries and opportunities, he would thrive. WRONG! His behavior became too radical for us to manage effectively so after therapists, research and much sole searching, we entered him into a residential program. We pray that this will be his saving grace and that he will emerge next year being able to make better decisions to allow him a promising future.

Did I ever have my eyes opened to how the world has changed for the youth of today!!! I can't say that all of it is for the better... They have so much more than we did but I also see that many kids are missing the core values that come with having less. Parents are working more, added stress, technology, etc. You know it is not about having "things". It's about being kind to others, having compassion and giving from the heart level. Being part of a family is not what everyone can do for you but learning to share and involving yourself in the responsiblities of living together for the good of everyone. Understanding your role in the universe is important but know God and his ability to guide and help you.

Yes, it's a different world. I've since had a birthday that frankly I don't totally accept. Sure, the math adds up, but I feel physically and mentally tops. I keep my mind open for new ideas, look forward to travelling to new places and anticipate the joy of new friendships. As the title of my blog reads--It's a good life INDEED!